
L.O.V.E. Summit
The Emma Willard School Office of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion is excited to welcome you to our first annual L.O.V.E. Summit!
Listen. Observe. Validate. Empathize.
This year’s Theme: Women’s Empowerment
Saturday, March 28
3:00–6:45 p.m.
Slocum Hall at Emma Willard School
The L.O.V.E. Summit is an interschool conference that brings together students and educators from multiple high-school communities to engage in dialogue, learning, and celebration. This year's theme is centered on Women’s Empowerment.
Grounded in the principles of Listening, Observing, Validating, and Empathizing, the summit is designed to create space for students to:
- Learn from peers across schools and lived experiences
- Share perspectives and practices related to empowerment and equity
- Build cross-school relationships rooted in respect and care
- Engage in both critical reflection and collective joy
Registration has now ended. For late registration information, please contact Prince Botchway.
Details
In honor of Women’s History Month, the theme of this year’s summit is Women’s Empowerment. While the theme centers women’s experiences, participants and facilitators of all genders are welcome.
Special features of the summit include:
- A community dinner and fireside chat with Dr. Ashley Bennett, moderated by Micha Greene
- An interschool dance hosted by Emma Willard’s Black and Latinx Student Union.
- Student- and educator-led workshops
- Affinity group gatherings.
Registration for the summit is open through March 15. Adults interested in facilitating an affinity group will have the opportunity to indicate their interest when registration opens. There is no cost to register for this event.
Schedule
3:00–3:30 p.m. Welcome & Opening Gathering - Kiggins or Lyon-Remington
- Welcome to participating schools
- Performance
- Introduction to the L.O.V.E. framework
- Framing Women’s Empowerment within the interschool context
- Community norms and intentions
3:40–4:10 p.m. Workshop Session I - Classrooms in Slocum
- Student- or adult-led workshops representing different schools
4:20–4:50 p.m. Affinity Group Breakouts - Classrooms in Slocum
- Cross-school affinity spaces for reflection and connection
- Participants will be grouped intentionally across schools based on their affinity group selection per registration form
5:00–5:30 p.m. Workshop Session II - Classrooms in Slocum
- Second round of workshops
5:40–6:30 p.m. Community Dinner, Remarks, Fireside Chat with Dr. Ashley Bennett and Micha Green - Kiggins or Lyon-Remington
- Shared meal across schools
- Fireside chat with Dr. Ashley Bennett on empowering women to action and community care
6:30–6:45 p.m. Closing of the day
- Open group discussion
- Introduce BLSU for information on interschool dance to follow
6:45–10:00 p.m. Celebration & Interschool Dance
- An opportunity for joy, relationship-building, and community celebration
Workshops
Click on the workshop title below to read a description!
- Beyond One Voice: Centering Intersectionality in Feminist Spaces
- Honoring The Beauty of Femininity While Defying the Binary
- Layered Listening: How To Have Constructive Conversations When You Just Want to Scream
- Leadership from Within: How Our Healing Serves Others
- Let's Talk Liberty: Why Civic Discourse Matters
- Love, Dignity, and Power Leading as a Woman of Color: Rooted. Humane. Unapologetic.
- Microaggressions: Reaction, Reflection, Support
- Moving Beyond “One Size Fits All” Feminism
- My Board is Better Than Yours: Women at the Table
- Raising Voices: The Power of Speaking Up
- Sister, Sister: A Discussion on Sisterhood in Film and TV
- Start With The Blues, Don't Stop Til Hip Hop
- Storytelling through Art
- The Perfection Perception: Reclaiming and Redefining ‘Beauty’ as an Act of Resistance
- Women in Media: How Women are Portrayed and Who Gets to Decide
Beyond One Voice: Centering Intersectionality in Feminist Spaces
Honoring The Beauty of Femininity While Defying the Binary
Presented by Sam Davis, Education Consultant
This session explores femininity as a powerful, expansive force that transcends biology, traditional gender roles, and the gender binary. Participants will examine how femininity has been historically constrained, reclaimed, and celebrated, particularly by women and gender-expansive people. Through reflection and dialogue, we will unpack how femininity can be both deeply personal and collectively transformative, addressing questions regarding identity, race, culture, and queerness. The workshop aligns with this year’s theme of Women’s Empowerment through the lens of L.O.V.E.:
- Listen: Practicing radical listening to voices that challenge mainstream narratives.
- Observe: Critically examining social norms and systems that define or punish certain performances of femininity.
- Validate: Affirming diverse expressions of womanhood and femininity, especially those outside the binary.
- Empathize: Deepening the capacity to empathize with different lived experiences to strengthen solidarity.
Ultimately, this session reframes femininity as resilient, creative, and boundary-breaking.
Layered Listening: How To Have Constructive Conversations When You Just Want to Scream
Presented by Ann-Marie White, Amanuel Gediyon, and David De La Rocha, The Putney School
This is a hands-on workshop where you will get to learn a technique you can practice with friends to help you BEFORE you get into an argument. This technique is GREAT when you are having a conversation with someone and you don't agree, or you don't feel you are being heard. Kids have taught this to their parents, siblings, friends, and teachers and have found that they have had better conversations.
Leadership from Within: How Our Healing Serves Others
Presented by Toyin Augustus, Across the Tracks
At a time when disconnection and apathy are leveraged for violence and survival, the art of connecting and feeling deeply for each other is paramount. These are skills they will need beyond high school. Sharing tools that help them to think critically and care deeply are particularly precious for the well-being of our society.
Let's Talk Liberty: Why Civic Discourse Matters
Presented by Keya, Emma Willard School
In a world where it's getting harder and harder to communicate across political and ideological divides, we must challenge ourselves to engage in civic discourse and work to understand contrasting perspectives with the utmost dedication. If you're interested in exploring the dichotomies of free speech, the complexity of modern-day politics, and the importance of mutual compassion and respect, then “Let's Talk Liberty.”
Love, Dignity, and Power Leading as a Woman of Color: Rooted. Humane. Unapologetic.
Presented by Reena Patel, Waring School
This session invites participants to a deeper understanding of leadership rooted in integrity rather than dominance or performance. Rooted in bell hooks’ “ethic of love” and the dignity framework by Donna Hicks, this session explores how women of color approach leadership while navigating stereotypes and expectations to overperform. The session includes reflections inspired by Imani Perry on memory, identity, and the interior lives of women of color, alongside poetry from Nikita Gill reclaiming personal strength and softness. This session examines the internal negotiations young women face while considering that leadership led by love must include self-love and boundaries. Participants will explore ways to protect their own dignity and the dignity of others, while cultivating leadership that is sustainable, rooted, and deeply humane.
Microaggressions: Reaction, Reflection, Support
Presented by Guangyu Hao, Emma Willard School
The focus of this workshop is to help participants recognize and understand microaggressions, explore the variety of human emotional responses, and develop strategies to support themselves and others. Participants will examine how people may react differently to microaggressions depending on their experiences and contexts—some may respond with immediate anger, some may feel numb, others may reflect or process their emotions later. Through guided discussions, reflection activities, and peer support exercises, participants will practice listening, observing, validating, and empathizing with different responses to microaggressions. This directly connects to the theme of Women’s Empowerment through L.O.V.E., as participants will learn to create a more supportive and inclusive environment, respect diverse perspectives, and empower themselves and others to respond thoughtfully to challenging situations. The 40-minute workshop is structured to combine active participation, reflection, and practical strategies for responding to microaggressions, fostering both personal growth and peer support.
Moving Beyond “One Size Fits All” Feminism
Presented by Paloma, Emma Willard School
Too often, the feminist movement has been portrayed by both pop culture and movement leaders as “one size fits all” in a way that sidelines minority voices and overlooks the complex identities of the people whom the feminist movement is meant to support. This workshop will discuss intersectional feminism, the historical exclusion/inclusion of minority voices in the feminist movement, and the importance of including diverse voices and perspectives in the feminist movement. Participants will have the opportunity to share their personal stories and relationships with feminism, as well as to reflect on ways in which we can make the feminist movement more inclusive.
My Board is Better Than Yours: Women at the Table
What 12 Female Board Leaders Teach Us About Empowerment Through L.O.V.E.
Presented by George Borum, Schenectady Scholars Charter School
At the heart of empowerment is representation—not just being present, but having voice, influence, and decision-making power. This workshop explores what it means to build and lead alongside a governance team composed of 12 women leaders and how their leadership reflects the L.O.V.E. framework: Listen, Observe, Validate, Empathize. While many institutions talk about inclusion, this session examines what happens when women are not just included but centered. Through storytelling, reflection, and interactive dialogue, participants will explore:
- Listen: How empowered women leaders create space for diverse student and community voices.
- Observe: The importance of paying attention to who is not being heard.
- Validate: Why affirming lived experiences strengthens school culture.
- Empathize: How relational leadership builds bridges across differences.
Raising Voices: The Power of Speaking Up
Presented by Alankrita and Sariah, Emma Willard School
You can make an impact simply by speaking up for what matters to you! The focus of this workshop is to educate students about the power of self-advocacy, especially in a school environment. Students will leave with strategies to navigate difficult conversations as well as advocate for themselves through thoughtful communication, resilience, and collaboration. Get ready to speak up for the changes you wish to see in the world!
Sister, Sister: A Discussion on Sisterhood in Film and TV
Presented by Olivia, Emma Willard School
What is a “found family”? How does media, specifically created or centering women, help us see through different eyes? What does it mean to find your people? What have the people in your life taught you about being a woman, and how have they changed your view on womanhood? How does popular media influence or imitate the real world? What does media get wrong? This guided discussion will provide an opportunity for participants to ask these questions and share (or learn about, if you prefer listening) media that resonates or challenges our definitions of love and explores unique bonds between women.
Start With The Blues, Don't Stop Til Hip Hop
Storytelling through Art
Presented by Andrea, Angelina, and Marvelous, Millbrook School
Our Workshop will provide a space for many to share stories highlighting the pressures and obstacles we can come across while trying to share them, in addition to the validation that comes with stories being told. We will work with each other to look through different art lenses wether that be dance, theatre, painting/drawing, poetry, music, etc., to highlight the importance of expression and the danger of being in a space that lacks diversity and the safety needed in order to express. In having conversations about art and telling stories, speaking from the I perspective, and allowing vulnerability, we will create a space where we are forced to listen with empathy, observe one another in shared experiences, and validate emotions when we realize they are similar to our own.
The Perfection Perception: Reclaiming and Redefining ‘Beauty’ as an Act of Resistance
Presented by Gemma Halfi, Emma Willard School
In 2012, when Ms. Halfi's daughter was born, a feeling of panic set in at the thought of her beautiful little girl being raised in a world where beauty is defined for her by societal systems that are created intentionally to make girls and women doubt their self-worth, to always see themselves as “not being enough,” and to perpetually be chasing after a body and beauty standard that is truly a “perfection perception.” It was on that day in 2012 that Ms. Halfi made the decision to completely eliminate any negative self-talk about physical appearance and beauty standards. Her choice to do this was originally an act of love for her daughter, but what she didn’t realize at the time was that it would also become a powerful act of resistance and justice in the face of a society dominated by white supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism. Ms. Halfi invites you to join her in the fight to reclaim our own definitions of beauty as an act of resistance.
Women in Media: How Women are Portrayed and Who Gets to Decide
Presented by Micha Green, The Washington Informer
This workshop will build media literacy while empowering students to challenge and reshape narratives. Participants will examine how women are portrayed in media, dive into social media and algorithms, discuss messaging, and collaborate on a short group activity.
Keynote Speaker
Keynote Speaker: Dr. Ashley L. Bennett

Dr. Ashley L. Bennett was born and raised in Houston, TX. She began her work in college admissions at Oklahoma City University, where she served as assistant director of admissions and began honing her skills to help students successfully navigate through the complexities of the college admission process. Following this role, Dr. Bennett then served as director of admissions and recruitment at Wiley College, a small, private HBCU in Marshall, TX. In 2013, Dr. Bennett returned home to Houston to be with her family. She served as a college counselor at an independent girls’ school for five years before transitioning to her role as director of college counseling at KIPP Sunnyside High School in 2019. In the summer of 2021, Dr. Bennett moved to upstate New York to serve in her current capacity as director of college counseling at Emma Willard School.
In recent years, Dr. Bennett has served on national panels to unpack and discuss racism and inequity in education. In 2020, she served as a panelist and facilitator for Impact Tulsa, Change Happens in Houston, Rutgers University, and the Being Black in College webinar series for ACCEPT: Admissions Community Cultivating Equity & Peace Today. Ashley was the keynote speaker for The Princeton Review and Tutor.com, where she discussed equity and access in the college counseling and college admissions spheres. Dr. Bennett served on the faculty of the Student Diversity Leadership Conference offered by the National Association for Independent Schools (NAIS). Dr. Bennett also serves as chair-elect on the Board of Directors for the Association for College Counselors in Independent Schools (ACCIS). She serves as vice chair for the Board of Directors for Girls Inc of the Greater Capital Region, and she serves as chair of the Board of Directors for the Schenectady Scholars Charter School. Additionally, Dr. Bennett serves on the DEIB Advisory Board for Smith College.
With more than 20 years in the profession, Dr. Bennett has presented at the Texas Association for College Admissions Counseling (TACAC) annual conference, the Great Plains Association for College Admissions Counseling (GPACAC), and the Southern Association for College Admissions Counseling (SACAC) on topics such as microaggressions, being Black in the profession, leveraging technology, code switching, and the intersection of race and gender in college admissions.
Dr. Bennett received her bachelor’s degree in African and African American studies from The University of Oklahoma and a master’s in adult education with an emphasis in training from the University of Central Oklahoma. She earned her doctorate in ethical leadership from the University of St. Thomas in 2020, where she researched the lived experiences of transgender students in high school. Dr. Bennett is a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., the largest Black Greek-letter sorority in the world. When she is not working, Dr. Bennett enjoys time with her husband, Chevy, her kiddos, Aijah and Austin, and her beloved fur baby, Layla.
Keynote Host
Keynote Host: Micha Green

Micha Green is an award-winning journalist, storyteller, and actress from Washington, DC, and currently serves as Managing Editor of The Washington Informer. With more than a decade of experience across print, digital, and broadcast media, Micha is known for compelling storytelling, newsroom leadership, and deep community engagement rooted in Black media and cultural reporting.
She earned a Bachelor of Arts in Theatre (performance track) from Fordham University, graduating cum laude, and a Master’s of Journalism with a specialization in broadcast journalism from the University of Maryland’s prestigious Philip Merrill College of Journalism.
In her role as managing editor, Micha directs editorial strategy for daily digital coverage, a weekly newspaper, and special editions, while managing writers and overseeing stories from pitch to publication. Her work has received multiple honors from the Maryland, Delaware, and District of Columbia Press Association and the National Newspaper Publishers Association, including first-place awards for feature storytelling and special editions. She also regularly represents The Washington Informer through television and radio appearances.
Previously, Micha served as features content editor at The Baltimore Sun, where she launched the arts and culture column Baltimore Backstage and hosted community storytelling events. She also spent four years as DC and digital editor for the AFRO-American Newspapers, managing digital platforms, hosting live shows, and earning recognition for both breaking news and cultural coverage.
Beyond journalism, Micha has a strong background in arts education, having taught acting, play analysis, and journalism at Duke Ellington School of the Arts. She serves as a board member of the Society of Professional Journalists, DC Chapter, is a member of the Washington Association of Black Journalists, and is a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Xi Omega Chapter.
In her spare time, Micha teaches Zumba, enjoys running and participating in races, performs as an actress, and loves spending time with her dogs.



